You’ve achieved countless successes, but you still feel lost, alone, or trapped in a crowd.
Does your outer world meet your inner expectations?
When I was a technical trainer and project manager at Administration for Children Services (ACS) in New York City, I was asked to lead a city-wide rollout training initiative. At the end of our first session, I reminded the group that they were required to attend second session. An older woman approached me as we dismissed and informed me that, though she enjoyed the training, she wouldn’t be able to attend the second session for personal reasons. She then expounded on the reason: her son was killed on his birthday seven years earlier and since that time she’d never left her house or talked with anyone on that day. She saw no reason to feel optimistic, or to feel good since this tragic incident took her only son away. She’d had a very lonely existence ever since.
I related to this story because, after being sent to Jamaica at seven years old, I’d never had my parents around me. I understand loss, and I know what it feels to be alone. On instinct, I offered this woman my office number and told her we’d schedule time to do a one-on-one training – no problem – I understood and would be happy to work with her.
The next day, as I took the attendance for the class, I came across her name, and I shared that she had a personal reason for being away. To my surprise, she responded, “No, Ms. Tate I’m here today!”. She stood up and shared that because she’d been so moved by my spiritual and giving nature the day before, she chose to make a critical change that day and come to the class.
The fact that my instinctual actions influenced her so profoundly, helping her break a longstanding pattern, was an incredible testament to the powerful impact my insights and empathy can offer other human beings. So, in this small moment of clarity, I officially began my own journey to seek out the science of success and share my findings with others. My services and programs offer exactly that: an opportunity to explore your own science of success in your personal and life work balance concerns.
LIFE isn’t about finding yourself.
LIFE IS ABOUT CREATING YOURSELF.
Let’s create consistent, flawless and solid solutions that will last a lifetime.
“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”
– Lao Tzu
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Warmly,
Sandra B. Tate
Your Lifestyle Engineer
P.S: Who could forget “You got a dream… You gotta protect it. People can’t do somethin’ themselves, they wanna tell you you can’t do it. If you want somethin’, go get it. Period.”
